Tuning in for better communication

Just like radio, there are several factors that may contribute to interference in communication. In my book, For All Things a Season," I talk about how we must take the time and make the effort to tune into our children. For example, what is the parent's emotional state? Is he or she angry and frustrated? Sad? Depressed? Firstly, the way that parents feel communicates directly to their children. Further, emotions can drive the communication style of the parent; he or she may be sharp and curt if angry, or quiet and using a tone of voice that does not get the child's attention. Parents must be aware of their own feelings and make certain that they are not interfering with communication.

Secondly, what is the physical proximity between you and your child? Are you in the same room? Are you making eye contact? Can your child hear you, or is there music or television in the room?

Thirdly is the tone of voice. If you are speaking in a soft tone of voice, the child may not hear or may not understand that you are talking to him. If you are using a loud tone of voice, the child may respond only to the tone and become fearful and anxious, both of which make it difficult to communicate meaning and information in an effective and appropriate manner.

Next topic for better communication - sharing your feelings.

Have a blessed day.


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